"The Game" : Everyone plays and no one wins

Mirror Mirror on the wall, We always forget where we actually fall!!! 

Hello People, Hope you all are doing great, staying positive and testing negative. Today, I am going to discuss about something that even you; Yes,I am talking about you only, must have also experienced or been a part of this game. So, Am I talking about sports today, fitness and all??? or the indoor games fun??? Naah!!! Dear relax, I am going to share a bit of ज्ञान today, as I've heard somewhere, "ज्ञान baatne से ज्ञान badhta है।" Let's get started now, I am going to talk about the "blame-game", The game we play every single day without even knowing it, The game which is been  played by a 5-year old tod and played till his hair turns grey. 

 

Everyone is so busy in their Work From Home, Online studies or in the household chores, that they don't realise "What are we doing"??? "What is going to be the after result"??? The "pros and cons", and the logic behind our decisions. So, in the near future, if the things don't turns out the way they should or the mistakes are made, we simply start blaming The situation, The people and moreover The hands of the clock; We simply say, "Arrey, Wakt theek nhi tha".

People generally tangle themselves by blaming it on others, rather they can simply sort it out in their own way by accepting their plus-minus things; Thus, Before blaming it on others, people should think about it. Generally I've heard the statements like, "I wanted to go to the gym on Monday, but was loaded with some official work", "If she had not said that to me, I would've never shouted on her", "I scored less GPA this time, the faculties didn't took lectures or gave the sufficient notes links" and many more such statements. In my opinion, If you are firm determined enough nobody can stop you from achieving your goals. Basically you need to have a "self-control". Self control on your "anger", on your "expectations" and on your "thoughtful mind".

Think about the time, and gently knock on your skull,  when you are in hurry, looking for something very important, and suddenly the table or the cupboard hits your knee or your toe. Ohh pity!!! and you start blaming the poor cupboard/table. Generally, the people find one way or the other to blame others but will never accept their fault. But they need to be accountable to the fault they've done.

Even the 5-year old kid, blames his other friends to prove himself right in front of his parents. The mistake  is made right from the baseline.The life goes on with this strong blame game. Not only this, even when a person is laid on his deathbed, people will blame the doctor(having medical degrees), the hospital, the money and everything but will never understand,that every breath counts and we all have certain count limit. There are lot-many-everyday instances where we can witness this blame game.

Basically, the list of instances is going to be endless.

 You need to accept your fault and learn from it. Never expect too much from anyone, be it your best buddy,your family and even from yourself. Before making any decision you need to think twice, so that you won't be blaming others. We all are getting so pro in this game that we forget, where we actually fall. We often lose our bond with that person, the trust and our perception towards that person is changed for the coming time. We might prove ourself right at that moment by blaming it on others but we might turn our friends into enemy, family into strangers or even  mental illness as the things are always there in mind, we'll think, then overthink. So instead why to blame, Be kind.

So next time whenever you blame your spouse, sibling, friends or anyone, first peep into your innerself, analyse the whole situation, If it's your fault then accept it. Generally whenever you are in anger or you want to prove yourself right, "sati savitri" types, just to save yourself you push the other person in the guilty pool and he drowns from your life.

That's it for today's #gyaan_ki_baat :)

Share and comment if you ever played or someone else played with you this Blame game.