Life is a roller-coaster!!!

Who says you can find rides only in an amusement park??? Well, if you think so, take a glimpse of your life!!!

If you look back, five years down the lane just ask yourself...

Were you the same person then? Were your goals/ambitions the same as they are now? Were you worried about the future as much as you are now? The answer to all these questions will probably be a big NO!!!! 

So can we say that, like ticking of clock , the span of our life also revolves. There were times when our only wish was to move out of our homeplace,own a car, a house, a foreign trip, a trip to Goa for sure, following our dreams, 6-digit bank balance and the list goes on! But now close your eyes, think for a while...What do you need and, secondly what do you want. People usually get confused regarding the needs and wants, which results in wrong decission making. And if you think about the needs, then HAPPINESS will be on the top followed by Peace, Content life, Stability. So did you noticed, how quickly we've swaped our personalities from being materialistic to getting not-so-materialistic.

Though I've listed the needs, but What could be better than getting all of that we've asked for! Thus there are times  when we are so happy and content, that we are not worried about anything, as everything goes in its pace as it should be. But like when you flip a coin and you'll see its other side too...same happens with our life. There comes a time when everything seems to be so unfair, that "why only me?" moment comes, dark all around. We can't find happiness in any of the ways, 'coz nothing fine is happening around. You lose your hope, strength,willingness, curiosity to start something new, enthusiasm which has been killed by you, present in you. Nothing seems alright to you, your mind is filled with the frustation and you want to spit it out all as it is killing you from inside, but on whom will you spit??? So in this deep and dark phase you start losing your loved ones too. And you are standing still there in dark with the nails of Anxiety, Happiness, Finances, Content life hitting you harder on your back with the hammer.

But Oh my Dear!!! This is what a roller coaster feels like.The moment you are up, high in the sky, you are so scared to move down, but now as you are down on the ground the anxiety attacks you to go up again and it goes on;  Same happens with our life. The time you feel like you are now fulfilled with all your needs and wants, ohh knock-knock, Its time to check your patience. And with it, there comes  some negative vibes, a pinch of panic and anxiety, a phase of not-so-stable-life, some small fights and a lot more stuff which makes you feel low, very low. In all, its upto you whether you want to enjoy the ride or feel scared with the ups and down of the ride.

And what I feel is, that there should be some fun rides like this in our life. Won't you get bored when everything happens just fine, you get what you want, no hustling, no sacrifices, then how would one know about the importance of what he has already lost. One should not lose hope even in the darkest of all phases of his life. Be positve, and yes don't just sit there like keeping hand on hand, keep trying, keep hustling, you'll get what you want; most importantly be patient...but now you'll say until when??? Ohh my dear ones, you might not get it today or tomorrow but maybe at the right time.Let's not loose hope and support each other.

So do you also feel like you are in a roller coaster ride??? Share your views in the comments.

Keep smiling!!! 

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