Fight against बेशर्मी!!!

"Yeh kaise baithi ho" , "Har baat par hasna zaroori nhi" , "kapde thik karo" , "Dheere bolo-Dheere haso" , "Yeh kaise chal rhi ho, walk like a girl" and a lot more such pathetic statements, you would've heard. If  not , then surely you must have  passed on to some cutehearts who are trying to prove themselves against all the vicious acts.

 

Well Relax!!!, I am not a feminist who is here to fight against and make controversial content but yes, I am always up for gender equality. In our families, friends and outside world, the WOMAN is always under estimated . You say something and this cuteheart will follow it;  Someone may call it as respect but somewhere in the corner one may regard it as slavery too.

But why it happens with women only, why not men???

Ohh sorry-sorry, let's not be biased here, it happens not only with women but even with men. So, we should say our society is evil, and one should treat each other as a HUMAN ; though women suffers a more of it, and we need to accept this fact.

Once the girl  turns 25, "shadi kab kar rhi ho" and such other statements are passed to let her down.

Oh  God!!! why she ain't allowed to live her dreams, fulfil all her wishes and make her parents proud???The mindset of the people has been set to this low that now it needs to be updated though. But, it doesn't ends here!!!

If you want to sit comfortably, not- crossing- your- leg is the best way. But I don't know where, it has been quoted that a girl needs to sit with her one leg on the other(cross legs)only and behave like a puppet. Umm...I guess in the mindset of the society it has been written. And the people around you will say, yeh kaise baithi ho, पैर ठीक करो !!! Congrats you've crossed the level of besharmi. 

So now, To all those who don't know me, I am a person with a very jolly nature, happy-go-lucky always and to be precise very loud indeed as I don't pretend but just believe in being myself. Unluckily,  I've been a victim of, "Dheere haso" always ; and to be very honest, I get hurt by this statement more than anything. But why do these people dig into others life??? Why can't they survive only in their own business ???

I think , Laughing out Loud, and there is no other thing beautiful than this. 

On this topic , I can write up for pages... But let's not create a mess here. I am not saying why only MEN are highlighted as The Aunties and The DIDIs around you have got that power to oppose and even offend you more than  the brave hearts MEN. As a women will never let  put your crown up than hers.

I am up for gender equality, there needs to be some mutual understanding between a man and a woman.  As it doesn't means if a man is allowed to take a walk half naked so does a woman have a right to do that. Though we all know that gender equality is not about protecting women, empowerment of women or uplifting women, but also to care about men, their rights-their values, as they are also been pressurized by the society. We all know our limits-our boundaries.Here the point is, to not let anyone be your slave. Do what makes you feel good and lively.

I am not a feminist, sweetheart!!! 

But let me remind you, 

All men are not dogs, 

All women are not always right.

Once a wise man said,

You do You,

I'll do me... :')

Believe in yourself as the society is always waiting for you to call you BESHARAM anyhow. 

So don't be a raja beta/rani beti, speak your mind up!!!

This is just a point of view, not here to hurt  anyone.

Do what makes you happy and feel proud to be called a BESHARAM :)