SELFISH??? It's Okay!!!

Why to set yourself on fire, to keep other people warm???So be SELFISH.

                  We live in a society where "Giving is better than receiving". Advise, Money, or anything else just give your to the fullest.But until when?Then, there comes a time when you start giving time to yourself, live for yourself.Close you eyes and think 

when you've last given time to think about yourself, think about a better YOU once in a day. Selfish can be defined as devoted to caring only for oneself and highly concerned with our own thoughts,interests,benefits  etc. regardless others.This kind of act is generally hated by everyone and has a negative impact on our society, but somewhere or the other everyone is selfish at one point of our life.Generally, people say "Selfish, me?? Never ever...", but it would be a biggest lie to our-self as till some point of life we will be caring for others, giving our all to them; soon after you'll realize that you've been caught in their trap, so you'll start prioritizing yourself,your needs, your wants accordingly.

According to me being selfish is nothing like negative impact as there is not anything wrong in loving yourself first or caring for yourself or looking for your own benefits and profits.One can choose right over wrong.Sometimes being selfish means giving pleasures to yourself first, it can be your any social work, motivating others,being partial in your friend circle.As a person can feel happy by providing funds for the social work, or by motivating someone so that he/she can move in a right direction, many a times in a group of four you can be partial to one as your thinking and psychology matches with that person and you can share your strong bond.In my view, to be successful person.one needs to be selfish.Just close your eyes, and thought for a while that why you should drown yourself in river when the people around you can't even jump a puddle for you.For example, a 9CGPA-holder will help an average student to some extent, but he/she would not be giving each and every notes as that average student friend might become their competitor only in the life race.It's okay to be selfish when your room-mate sucks in day-to-day life,It's okay if you want to end a relationship and friendship if you want to serve yourself first rather than giving importance to them
                        We are living in a tough World, where one becomes greedy and look for their own profit first.Everyone here  is selfish here without even realizing it.One should do whatever he feels like to do,therefore being selfish is good for a person. At least you'll not be suffering from any anxiety as you'll be focusing on yourself only and other people don't matter that much to you.If you're being selfish you are aware of the fact that you've been taken for granted in someone's life which has only led you to be selfish,You can motivate yourself, as YOU are the only best friend of YOURSELF.You don't trust anyone anymore.But the biggest disadvantage is - It's going to be hard for you to keep and fulfill all your friendship and relationship.You might get stuck in between  your friendship/relationship and you selfish nature.