PATIENCE

A wise man once said, "sometimes when it rains, I hear the Sun whispering wait". This may sound easy but actually it is difficult to wait for anything. So all it depends on a person whether he is a person with patience or impatience person; a person who would like to use every second wisely or a person who wants everything instantly.Whenever you are in any sort of trouble, people often advise you to have patience. Why, instead of advising you about the solution, do they ask you to stay calm and composed and be patient?

PATIENCE is very important in life as it takes time to  develop for us in the right manner and experience it in the positive way. Every man wants to have every work "right here- right now", but that cannot happen every time in every case. Patience is probably the biggest lesson for man to learn because with indefinite patience, we are indefinite merciful and forgiving.Patience can also be said as the forgotten quality in the mankind.The dictionary defines patience as the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble or suffering without getting angry or upset. In other words, it has a deeper meaning it means the willingness to stay in the present and live the situation out to the full in the belief that something special will manifest itself to us at the right time.
            The main cause of the problems and wars in this World is impatience only.People are being impatient even for  a second also.There are people who spoil their personal relations by being impatience, a person standing in a queue at railway station might get a red-face because of his anger by being impatient. The major problem of the people is they want things instantly and properly too;both at the same time. You might have seen that in a restaurant when the customer has ordered his meal, he wants that instantly and with a good taste too but he doesn't understand that his meal might take some time so to act calm would be a wise decision.Even at a traffic signal nearby people can't even for a yellow light to turn into green before this they start accelerating and the whole world would rush like this only. It goes with one of my favorite phrase "Everything happens for a reason",
For example, a basketball player needs to practice well in every tournament to qualify for international tournament, he needs to be patient and act calm then only he will reach where his destiny falls, no matter how many days, weeks, months or years it would take.Therefore, if you have patience, the things you desire the most will flourish at the right time. Chanelle Scheepers, a South African tennis player, waited eight years for her break through to be ranked thirty seven in the world. Her patience over the eight years of trying took her to that spot, where she could have easily stopped and quit due to her anger and disappointment.

 Benjamin Franklin once said: “He that have patience can have what he will.” Having the ability to remain patient, will help you achieve big or better things in life. Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. No one said life is going to be easybecause all things are difficult before they become easy, but it will be your level of patience that will determine your fate.Sometimes, in our relationships, we become defensive, irritated, and say something to hurt others. We do not realize the importance of patience and end up making hasty decisions. Whenever you feel defensive against the person, try to be patient enough to take time to think over another person’s positive qualities.Patience helps us accept other people as they are and makes us tolerant. By being impatient, you suffer more than other people. .If things are not going the way you want them to, instead of getting frustrated,  you must learn to be patient. You need to see things and situations in a positive light to make your life happier. And to get that positivity, you need to be patient.If you find any life situation challenging, or find it difficult to bear, try to re-frame that situation and try to see its positive side.


                          Anger and stress are two things that are enough to ruin a person’s health. And patience is the antidote to both these illnesses. Being patient, you can overcome any challenging situation with more flexibility and in a better way. Being stress-free and happy helps you stay you healthier.

You can be patient if you have clear knowledge about your goal and if you are putting the desired effort in the right direction. There are many ways to achieve anything. The trick is to stick to your own plan when others around you seem to be getting ahead much faster than you. Yes, they may be enjoying more success than you, but you know nothing about where they are ultimately headed.
Patience is an important tool in overcoming frustration. Patience allows us to suspend judgment long enough to make informed decisions, thus paving the path to a happy and peaceful life. As one minute of patience might give you 5 years of peace.